Friday, April 20, 2007

Rabbinic Sexual Abuse of Children

My former brother in law lives in the Baltimore area. Over the last week or so, he has been keeping me in the loop regarding the story that broke last week of the alleged abuse of hundreds of children by Rabbi Ephraim Shapiro, the former principal of the Talmudical Academy. A few days ago, Rabbi Moshe Heinemann, one of the great Torah sages of our day issued an edict calling for the boycott of the Baltimore Jewish Times, who originally broke the story. (below, left) Now I am not the first or only one to write about this, (link here and here) but yesterday, I wrote about the abuse of adults by Rabbis. Today, it is the abuse of kids by rabbis. As a human service professional who spent over a dozen years working with children who were abused, I am appalled by the continuation of "keeping the secret." Didn't we learn our lesson with the Boruch Lanner affair? I can't begin to tell you how many of these cases one finds EVERY SINGLE DAY that go unreported or covered up. To ban a newspaper because they report the truth for fear of lashon hora or some such nonsense is a crime that the rabbis will have to account for in the world to come. What in the world happened to protecting our children? How about the collusion among the institutions that shuffle one abuser to another location only to allow them to abuse again? I once attended a lecture as part of a conference of the Association of Orthodox Jewish Scientists where they talked about sexual abuse of children in the orthodox community. Wanna be scared? Listen to some of those lectures. Frightening doesn't begin to describe it. Like the case of the chassidic child molester who was brought before the Rebbe. His "sentence" was to be "transferred" to the upstate (NY) community where the sect has a presence. His new job? School bus driver. Come on, you have got to be kidding me. One of the best ideas to come along in years is JSAFE, started by a friend of mine, Rabbi Mark Dratch. It is an organization that promotes "abuse free environments" for children. No big surprise, given its voluntary nature, the organizations are not turning out in droves to sign up. It would be great if we could all pressure every Jewish camp, school, synagogue and other organization to sign up with JSAFE to ensure that our children are in safe and protected environments. Then, the Rabbis would not be able to cover it up.

5 comments:

Dina Tamar said...

I'm glad you are writing about this. I think you should also be aware of The Awareness Center which was founded by Vicki Polin back in 2001. She's been addressing these issues for over 20 years.

Mottel said...

I do read the awareness center's stuff from time to time. I like them, but know that they are very contraversial.

calanit said...

You must post "The Real Issue" a letter-to-the editor 4/20/07 in the Baltimore Jewish Times by Paul Volosov, a frum, well-respected Jew, in the mental health field. The points he makes are VITAL to understanding and eradicating child sexual abuse. His letter should be read and INTERNALIZED by anyone intending to address this issue.

Dina Tamar said...

Mottel, it's really funny that it was decide that The Awareness Center is "contraversial". I always wondered who decided that they are? Was it the rabbis who have been protecting offenders for years?

Then I wonder what makes them contraversial? Is it that they speak the truth about what's been doing on for what seems like to be forever? I think they are doing the thing that makes the most sense. They educate the public on sexual abuse and they also don't let offenders get away with molesting children or adults.

What I think is really contraversial has been the way our rabbis have been handling cases for years.

Dina Tamar said...

If Paul Volosov is a well respect Jew in the mental health field, why hasn't anyone ever heard of him before?

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